An indecisive decision.

The following story is epic. It has laughter and tears, sorrow and triumph, and finally true love. It is the story of the glorious day I found my dress.

It started out gloriously. I had just met with my wedding photographer, the talented David McClain, and was excited for an afternoon of dress shopping with my mom and sister. We ended up at Cincinnati Bridal and Formal and got started. I was set up with a consultant, who would typically annoy the crap outa me, but this broad was great. She was silly, quirky, and not pushy at all! I tried on dress after dress, sticking mainly with the more fitted mermaid shaped gowns and wasn’t having a ton of luck. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I was looking fabulous, but nothing jumped out at me. Finally, I tried on a sample Pronovias gown and loved it. The shape was perfect and the fit was to die for, but I just wasn’t sure.

Oh, perhaps I should let you in on a little secret. I am indecisive. It takes me a ridiculous amount of time to order food from restaurants (ask Art)…. at that is just the tip of the iceberg. It makes me anxious thinking about the finality of a decision and what if its the wrong one!? Needless to say, I couldn’t decide on a dress, besides it was my first dress excursion and I wasn’t even sure I wanted to buy a dress from a bridal retailer. So we left…

Say cheese.

No, this is not another post about how much I love cheese and how I will incorporate it any way possible into the wedding. This post is about wedding pictures! “SAY CHEEEEESE!”

I love photography! It recent years it has become a huge passion of mine and honestly I just have a blast taking pictures. While I am planning a fabulous affair on a budget, I am excited to spend a larger percentage on my photographer. I browse wedding blogs daily and wanted to give you a glimpse of my taste:

This first site is by far my favorite. Bobbi and Mike shot the wedding of my beautiful friend Andrea about a year and a half ago! First of all, what a fabulous photographer:

Secondly, Bobbi has to be one of the top ten most fun people on the planet. Bobbi and Mike truly have 4 of the best eyes in the business and then the personality to top it off!

I don’t know how I came about finding Amy Wenzel’s photography last January, but as fate would have it, I did. By browsing her site and profile I realized that Amy’s husband went to the same college as me. I had heard his name a few times and know we probably had a few mutual friends (considering its a small private school). I’ve been hooked ever since. Amy shoots senior portraits and lots and lots of babies. She is phenomenal. No, shes not a wedding photographer, but her quick pics from this post and her obvious skills prove she would make a fabulous one!!!

And now, for my photo guy! I wandered upon David’s site through The Knot and was impressed. I could tell David was super talented, but hadn’t shot millions of weddings yet. And again, through some much talented facebook, blog, and world wide interweb stalking… I found out that Dave and I attended the same school too! I mean come on! I have not met with David but we are meeting next week! I am super pumped to take a look at what he has to offer and chat with him about what I’m looking for. I hope to be unlike any bride he’s ever shot and I wanna help him get some crazy business since he just moved to Cinci!

I’ll let you know how the meeting goes and if I come across any new blogs! You can usually follow links on wedding blogs to some great things so click around my friends.

New roomies.

I moved. My blogging has been quite sparse for the past couple of weeks because I have been a busy bee getting things prepared for my move. Trying to save some bucks and not finding it easy to nail down a short term lease in Philadelphia has left me in the arms of my near and dear friend Sarah Sparks-Tursack. Sarah and her husband have graciously allowed me to move in to their town-home until I tie the ole knot! I am so thankful for this opportunity because not only will it help me pinch pennies, but it will allow me to have fun planning this shin-dig!

One thing that I am very excited about is

the hens.

The deed is done. The bridesmaids dresses have been ordered. And from where you ask? None other than the fabulous Urban Outfitters. These dresses were one of the first solid decisions I made involving the wedding. It feels really good to get them ordered and on the way. The other bonus is that they were cheap! I love cheap gorgeous clothing. Here is a picture of them:

A dress. Oh la la.

There will not be a beautiful wedding without a beautiful dress. The most frequent question that I am asked now that I’m engaged revolves around my dress.

“What is your style? Where are you looking? A-line, ball gown, mermaid?”

All of these are valid questions, but all these questions go unanswered. I’m just not sure. I am a picky bride, a detail oriented bride, an unbride, but alas, I am an indecisive bride! Aaaghr! I scour websites day and night looking for unique gowns that fit my eclectic style, but I am yet to be wowed. I cannot make up my mind on whether or not I want a vintage gown that is altered toward my style or if I should go for a new gown that has the vintage look. All these decisions aside, there is one thing I am sure of…

A resolution.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

We spent this new years eve down in Manayunk a suburb of Philadelphia. It was a lot of fun, but as the ball dropped and the champagne flowed I was reminded of what the first of the year brings. It brings carte blanche. The free rein to choose whatever course of action we want. This is music to my wedding planning ears.

I’m making a planning resolution. I resolve to leave no link unclicked, no dress unzipped, and no idea un-pondered.

A boy. A girl. A ring.

And now for a plan. It’s going to be a positively wild ride my friends… so hop on, strap in and enjoy it! I am planning a wedding. Up until now you could pretty much call me a professional bridesmaid. I’ve been in all of my closest friends weddings and enjoyed every one of them! Alas, I am thrilled to be planning my own wedding with my boyfriend Art! He is an absolute peach pie and and a scholarly theologian, therefore will be quite busy over the next few months/years of his life and has graciously allowed me to make most, if not all, of the decisions of this process.

I have decided to dedicate this blog to my planning process. I will frequently update with new, fresh, fashion forward ideas about different aspects of my wedding. I plan on pulling inspiration from all things around me. My job, my friends, family, clothing, birds, art, and bridal mags of course will be of my most popular muses. I am a non traditional girl who is excited to plan a non traditional wedding. (Don’t worry, I wont be riding in on the back of a wild peacock) I’m definitely not knocking tradition! I am crazy about all things vintage and “tradition” is so vintage. I aim to break the mold a little and do some things out of the norm. My goal is to encourage other brides to embrace their own individuality while adopting aspects of the new and melding them with the old.

This lovely lady has the right idea. She is an amazing photographer, great blogger, and has many links to great sites for Unbrides around the globe. I am very excited to share this process with you and to hopefully help answer questions, inspire ideas, and stay within budget all along the way.